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4.15.2014

Birthday Celebrations

Well, now that Henry's birthday celebrations are 6 weeks behind us, I figure I need to blog about it! I have felt so behind on the blog, but I just have to give myself permission to run late on it! It is better than not at all, right? We had such a fun time celebrating Henry's second birthday. His actual birthday was exhausting, because we had been at the allergist the day before and the day of for his egg allergy testing that lasted all the way through his afternoon nap. He was a trooper, and we made it through with an all clear on his allergy, so it was worth it in the end! Then on March 1st, we had his actual birthday party with friends and family. Henry had lots of fun!!
                        We took Henry for pizza and afterward to get his very own ice cream at Baskin Robbins.
Henry was a BIG fan of getting his own serving with a cup and spoon!

Big two year old!


Afterward we came home and opened gifts. Henry was totally enthralled with the tool set we gave him.

He especially LOVED the electric drill he got. Look at that sweet little smile.

I was surprised at all the tool names he knew! He loved talking about them with Steven, and we felt bad tearing him away from the to make him go to bed right after he had just opened them!

We tried to get a family shot, but in each one he wanted to show off his drill and would put it right in front of his face!
The next morning, after I got Henry ready for school, he and I were going downstairs (our regular routine) to get breakfast. He seemed to be racing down them and I commented on how fast he was going! He also kept saying what I thought was "new diaper", and I kept saying, "No buddy, we already changed your diaper!". When we got downstairs, he ran straight into the living room and to his "screw driver" which made me realize that is what he was saying as he was racing downstairs! I let him play instead of eat breakfast for as long as I could, then he took a few tools into the car with him, and we ate breakfast on the go! Too cute! He doesn't get t-erribly excited about too many toys, so it was fun to see him get excited about them. The pic above is Henry playing the next afternoon with his tools with Steven-just look at that face!!
On Saturday, March 1, we had a Winnie the Pooh themed party! We invited friends and family to help us celebrate. The guests were welcomed with the sign above. Henry kept patting the sign and saying, "Dada do that! Dada make that!" He had watched Steven nail it all together several weeks before!
 Above is the decor I put above the table on the wall. The Pooh book in the middle is one of Henry's favorites and is opened to the page where the characters are celebrating a birthday, and the quote to the right is from the House and Pooh Corner that says, "Your just in time for a little smackerel of something."

This is the dining room with dessert table and food table:) I had lots of fun decorating for this!

For lunch we had "hunny" ham sandwiches with "hunny" mustard, pasta salad from Rabbit's garden, and Tigger tails (cheese puffs).

For dessert we had owl cupcakes. Henry kept calling them "hunny cakes" and begged for one from the moment he saw them the day before.

We also had a Pooh bear cake made by Aunt Mae...super cute!

I set out his other Pooh book on an end table.

The mantle was decorated with his name, lanterns with bees, 2 framed pooh prints I had, and even a little "hunny" pot I happened to have!

Celebrating with our 2 year old!

When the kids got there, I had a bee hive craft set out that they could do.

An up close version of the craft!

The kids also played pin the tail on Eeyore. Here is buddy John Lane giving Henry a big hug! They promptly fell over after this...it was more like a hug tackle!
Here is Henry's buddy Ellis pinning the tail on Eeyore.

Cousins from Lexington came in to help celebrate of course. Isn't this a great pic?

I got this shirt made for Henry to wear on his big day.




Henry has loved every present he got for his birthday from friends. He was so big telling everyone thank you after he opened them, and we have gotten tons of use out of them since!
Checking out his card!

Posing with nieces Kaia and Mary Ellen



Above is the action packed sunroom! We are blessed to have so many friends/family who are involved in Henry's life and are watching him grow up!

Buddy JL with momma Janelle.

Buddy Bennett with BRAND NEW baby Clayton and our wonderful friends Ryan and Robin. Thank you for braving one of your first outings as a family of four to a 2 year old's birthday party!!

One of the cutest things at his party was how into the Pooh cake Henry was. He took the fondant hunny pot and pretended to feed the hunny to Pooh, then would feed himself a bite, then wold go back to pretending to feed Pooh. So sweet!

"Want some?"

"I think I'll have a little smackerel myself!"

Next he got his own owl "hunny cake". This was his first cupcake ever, and he devoured it! Here he is blowing out the candles.

He loved his first ever bites of real cake!

He kept trying to feed us bites of it, too. Here Steven is trying to take care of being fed by a 2 year old!

We also played "Hunny Toss" where we tossed bean bags into Pooh's mouth. The kids had lots of fun with this!

Guests/neighbors the Potters

The Swanners

The Burns

Henry with his two Grandmas!!

And his two boy cousins!!

Here's the exhausted birthday boy with my parents....he was begging to go to bed at this point!

And here he is with Grandpa and Peggy...all partied out and ready for a nap! Thanks everyone for making our celebration so much fun! We love each of you!

3.17.2014

28 wks


On March 1, 2014 I turned 28 wks. My pregnancy is going well, and I have had several weekly OB visits in a row due to the doc wanting to monitor my pneumonia. I feel like I live at the OB's office! When I was (almost) 29 wks, the baby was measuring 28 cm. I find it very hard to believe, but the doc says he would actually like to see me gain some more weight!! I told him I had NEVER heard that before in my life, but I would do my best to oblige!! Ha, ha! I think it's just because I've basically been sick for 2 months solid, but I've only gained about 7 lbs total, and there have been a couple of visits where I've fluctuated and lost a few pounds. Anyway, I am not concerned, but he does want to do an ultrasound at my 32 wk appointment to just make sure the baby is growing as she should be. The heartbeat always sounds good, and she is also very active. I am great with this extra ultrasound, though, because it means another glimpse at her and also another chance to hopefully confirm her gender!:) Steven has made it his mission to make me eat, and has been pushing all kinds of food on me! I think I made up for lost time while on spring break last week! :)
My heartburn is in full force now, and I hate it so. I still sleep well and have not had back pain like I did at this phase with Henry. This pregnancy is going SO quickly...as I write this I am less than 10 wks away from my due date. When I was thinking about this last night as we were leisurely watching TV, I asked Steven if he realized that in just 2.5 short months we will be holding and possibly up walking around a crying infant and will be up every 3 hrs with her in the night.........it is a reality check for both of us to think about this! We've just done less prep than we did with Henry and worried less about it all (part of the beauty of a second child). While I've done some shopping for her for sale clothes, etc. we haven't done much else. I think when we get her room ready and I have some baby showers, it will help prep us mentally. We also need to go ahead and get out the baby equipment so Henry can get used to having it around before she arrives. I have started to glance back over the Bradley Method book to try and prep for delivery....I guess getting her here is really the first hurdle I should be focusing on anyway!
Welp, either way we are excited to meet her (still un-named....while driving to the beach last week we tried to come up with some and didn't get very far....). She'll be here before we know it!

3.11.2014

TWO!

Our little man turned TWO on February 26, 2014!! While it's hard to believe we have a two year old, all we have to do is look at Henry to know that he is not really a baby anymore, but is quite the "big boy" running around these days! I've said it before-it would be very sad for me that he is growing up so fast except for the fact that he is just so much fun right now! Everyday he is discovering something new, saying something new, and doing something new. Being a parent is quite the adventure!
We had lots of fun celebrating his birthday this year, and I will be posting on that soon, I hope! But for now, I want to do one last monthly "progress" update. Of course I will be continuing to write all about Hank, but I'm not planning to keep up the monthly update after 2. It is a lot of work! :) 
One of the best things that happened this past month wast that Henry was tested again for his egg allergy, and he has grown out of it!! We took him on the 25th for the prick test-no reaction! We went back the very next day (his actual birthday!) to do the "food challenge". I brought a scrambled egg and boiled egg in. They gave him increasingly larger portions of it and monitored him every 20 minutes-no reaction! I was honestly VERY surprised. He was such a show off at the allergist, too. Steven and I were super skeptical they'd be able to even get him to take one bite (picky and opinionated!), but of course he showed us up and not only ate it right off the spoon but begged for more! He would say, "mmm!" after each bite, too. Silly boy....you never know what he's going to do. Anyway, it has been SO SO nice to not have this worry anymore. Honestly nicer than I thought. Plus, it makes that year of avoiding egg worth it since it worked! I guess they knew what they were talking about after all........:)
Henry went to his 2 year checkup on March 5th and weighed 26 lbs (25%) and was 33.5 inces tall (25%). Dr. Dudley said he looks perfect.:)



Henry continues to talk up a storm. It is interesting, because I try to keep a "tally" on my phone of all his little phrases, and this is the first month that I truly have not been able to keep up at all. He has just said so many things there is no way. After looking at the list, I can even see progress within it. The first phrase of the month is much more "choppy" than what is written for the end of the month, and certainly much more than the full sentences he is saying to us (literally) today ("I want that book please, Mommy. No, not that one. (As I search the seat compartment for the one he's asking for). It's on the floor.") He will repeat anything, and it is SO much fun to hear that little voice emerge. We've tried stuff like supercalagragalisticexpialadoshus on him, and it is hilarious to hear him try. He gets pretty close for a 2 year old!! The more silly of a mood he is in, the more willing he is to try new words, so we do our best to take advantage of this:) He is my little companion in the car to and from work, and jabbers to me all the way. It's nice to hear other people confirm that he is a talker, too though, because we don't really know any different, but will sometimes look at each other and say, "Wow! Did he say______ (fill in the blank)". When church workers, strangers, and his school nursery workers comment on it, though, it makes it seem more valid. :)
Some stuff he's been saying this month has been:
I want mama, runny nose bubble need tissue, playroom dada, drink of water, bang on ball-hit it with a hammer-big hammer, sandwich, salad, lettuce, come on mama!, be careful!, hurry, hurry up, what's the matter mama?, you ok? (these are both so very sweet-he is showing lots of two yr old empathy, and he's gotten lots of practice this past month while I've been sick with pneumonia), I make a noise!, it's blue with green on it! (he's gotten very good with his colors this month), I see bicycles mama! Come on, bicycles!, mama finger scratch my face. Ouch, it hurt me. Hurt chin. (I went to grab him to keep him from falling and scratched his chin with my fingernail really badly! He told EVERYONE the story of what happened thereby making me feel like a terrible mother! I think he's going to have a scar from it- as you can see in the pics here), a little bit more, baby sister, look mama look-it's a ______(whatever he sees-he reports EVERYTHING to me!), mama's shopping, whatcha doing?, it hurts me/I hurt my feet, finger, thumb, whatever, wake up Maggie!, I like snow! More please!, No. Mine. Gimme that/it, I put it away, stickers? stickers? Thank you lady! (He has learned at what stores he gets stickers when we check out, and he never fails to ask. At least he thanks the lady when he get what he wants!), hey Mags, all done mama-I ate it all gone!, babies drink milk-they don't eat goldfish-Henry eats goldfish (this is after one of our conversations with him to attempt to get him ready for baby sister-ha!), Nora Kate (sounded like "cake"), Dawson, Carter, medicine...I need my medicine, I have dirty hands, tip it up high (new sippy cup), there's birds on that jacket! (he noticed my windbreaker), I like Bennett's house! (after we'd visited), baby Clayton, there's a choo choo train on it, Manar says-go away sneeze. skat!, No write in books. Only on paper! No, no. That's naughty. (after a conversation we had when we saw some crayon scribbled on the back page of a hand-me-down book. we talk A LOT about this). I want to hold you, Want that mommy? Want this? Want that one? Want some? (all in a row), can you reach that mama?
He breaks out into song on his own a lot these days, and some songs or portions of songs we get the pleasure of hearing are: That's Elmo's World! My God is so big (complete with hand motions), Muffin Man, This Old Man, Happy Birthday to You (for a while he was throwing "reindeer" in there and we couldn't figure out why-then we realized it was because of the "dear, so and so" part. so funny!). Itsy Bitsy Spider, Skip to my Lou my Darlin.
He has gotten really good (or bad) at saying "I want" this month, and we've had to remind him a lot to say please. He wants EVERYTHING! When he was a baby, I remember reading that a parent should "narrate the day" to increase a child's vocabulary, so I tried to do that some but felt so silly. Now, it is Henry who narrates the day. He tells us everything he is doing or wants to do.........I want to go outside, I put my coat on, I need shoes, I open the door, Come on, Maggie! Come on! Pine cones! I pick up them up. Come on, mama! Want this, mama? Want this? Need this? Here you go.........you get the picture:)


Henry also has "triggers" for every family member. As soon as he talks to or sees particular ones, he says certain things. For Manar, it's stickers. For Kaia, it's bracelets. For Grandpa and Peggy, it's cookies. For Grandma, it's Jesus Loves Me. The boy doesn't forget much! Recently we've been with my parents, and we heard him with my dad at the fridge in the kitchen say, "What are you doing, Papa? Are you getting yogurt?" It's so funny to hear him try to carry on conversations. He also answers "good" or "great" to questions now...like, when Steven asks him how he's doing or how his day was, he says, "good". He's also developing a little sense of humor, and when we showed him an eraser recently (he has a serious love for all things office supply related), he stood up and pretended to "race" it across the room:). He poked himself in the leg the other day accidentally and I heard him from the back seat tell himself sorry and then kiss his leg!
Ok, enough about that...some of Henry's current favorites are....
-food-animal crackers, green olives, graham crackers, cereal bars, strawberries, chicken nuggets
-toys-tools, knocking over stacking cups, golf balls/clubs, play-doh, painting, anything art (anything that's not really a toy like batteries, wipes, lotion, sunscreen, etc:))
-activities-anything outside is #1 by far, running around the house in a circle chasing dada (or vice versa), riding on dada's back like a horse, bubbles
-people-Ellis, Braeden, Eli, plus he talks about certain school nursery workers like Mrs. Mandi, Mrs. Julie and her daughter Emma, Mrs. Valerie, Mrs. Tracy, all family, he's been especially clingy and needy for me this month...up, please! I wanna hold you! I need mama.



We love you, little man! You are a blessing and a sweetheart.



2.11.2014

Baby #2


On September 20th, 2013, we got another surprise! We are expecting baby #2 in late May! I had been suspicious, but thought surly not. We were not planning this little one, but just like with Henry, we realize that God's plans not only trump ours, but they are far better than ours as well!! Henry and his sibling will be 27 months apart. We are excited and a little nervous to add to our family...FOUR??...WOW!! :)

September 20th happens to be Steven's birthday. I had suspicions a few days prior and he knew about these, but we put them out of our heads, because we knew they were wrong! I decided if I was still unsure on his bday that I would take the test. When it was positive, I was shocked to be honest! I signed his birthday card from Kelly, Henry, and Baby #2. After reading it, he looked up at me with a big smile on his face and said, "Really? Wow!" He was also surprised!


Here's me with a positive read...I have the same pose from when I found out I was pregnant with Henry.


Here is the 8 week ultrasound on 10/15/13. All was well at this checkup! We waited to tell family in person until we saw them all at Thanksgiving. I was 14 weeks at that point. Everyone was excited! I made phone calls, sent texts/e-mails, and announced to Sunday school after that. I told my principal, co-workers, and students the following week, and they were all thrilled as  well! After lots of thinking and praying, we've decided that I will take next year off of work to stay at home with the 2 kids. It just makes sense logistically, but we also see how quickly Henry's first 2 years have flown by and know that this is just going to continue, so staying at home is something I want to take advantage of while they are little. I'm thankful for the opportunity, but also a little nervous about being at home with 2 kids full time! Everyone has been very supportive of this decision, including my boss and co-workers. I'm so thankful for such a family oriented work environment (and for a supportive husband, too!!).
We sent out a Christmas card with this picture on the front to announce to all of our out of town family and friends that we were expecting. We got SO many compliments on the card that I was so glad I took the time to do it.
This is me at 20 weeks...I must say that I have gotten much bigger much faster with baby #2. I swear I
felt stretching and like I was already growing at 6 weeks. CRAZY. This week (20) was my first week to wear maternity clothes, but I could have been in them much sooner. I am just not a fan, so I put it off as long as possible! Part of the reason I feel bigger is because I AM bigger...Istill had about 15 pounds of "baby weight" from Henry that was not gone, so adding to that has been kind of depressing. I keep reminding myself, though, that my time will come soon enough when I can get back into better shape....summer time will be here before we know it! I've also had lots of encouragement from moms who say they showed much earlier with #2, too. You show earlier, but it doesn't necessarily mean you continue to grow at that rate. Whew. That is a relief! :) I felt this baby much earlier, too, like at around 13 weeks. Steven felt it around the same time as with Henry (18-20 wks), but I think he could have felt much earlier had we just been patient!


Below is me at 24 weeks. I've felt pretty good overall with this pregnancy. My main symptom has been exhaustion! I nap when Henry does, and I'm ready to go to bed early at night! I think this is because I am running after a toddler and also because with Henry my first trimester was in the summer whereas with this baby my first trimester was the first 3 months of school...which is exhausting in and of itself! A lot has been similar to my pregnancy with Henry, except I would say a bit milder (heartburn, cravings, emotions, etc). The one thing that has been better (so far-knock on wood) is my back pain. With Henry I was miserable on and off with an achy back, but so far this has not been the case! I know it could still come, but at least I haven't had this symptom thus far. The worst part was changing Henry's dirty diapers during my first trimester (nauseating!) and the almost 1 month long bout with pneumonia that I've dealt with up until this post. A constant cough/difficulty breathing and constantly not feeling good is no fun when you're pregnant. I am thankful to be feeling better!
 

Here is our 24 week ultrasound on 2/4/14 where we found out we are having a GIRL!! We were surprised and excited! We immediately started talking to Henry about his baby sister, and he's been talking about her ever since. Everyone was super excited to find out the gender. I told my class by giving them a Hershey's bar and circling the "Her" part of it. I was planning on handing it to them, but ended up sick and had to stay at home (I've had pneumonia for almost a month...but that's a different story!). The kids were dying to know, so the sub asked if we could Facetime for me to tell them. I showed them the Hershey's bar and let them figure it out. They were thrilled! When I saw them on Friday I gave them the candy, and that made them happy, too!:)
Above left is baby girl's face close up, and above right is a profile pic (not the best).
The other pics below are showing girl...the ultrasound tech at first said she was 85% sure, the by the end she said she would say she's 99% sure, but she doesn't do that kind of thing:) While we just kind of have to trust her, it did not look like Henry's gender shot, so I tend to think she's right. I still feel skeptical, though, for some reason. I guess we will just have to see her to believe it! We have no names for her...haven't really talked about it yet. The nursery will stay similar, we will just add a little pink! We've already shopped a little for her (gotta take advantage of the late winter sales, ya know??). I'm certainly excited to dress her!



That's all for now on baby #2. Will continue to keep posting on our progress, though!